No One Has a Perfect Body
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Young woman interviewed this morning had bum cheek fillers done by a non medic and nearly died of sepsis. I remember when we would ask our friends...'does my bum look big in this?'
What has happened to young people of today with all their surgical enhancements. No one is perfect and even with all the surgery you are not perfect and sometimes look plain ridiculous.
I have always been far from beautiful, with thick, fuzzy hair but i have had a normal life and have known love and friendship. Surely you are likely to be less attractive to others if you are obsessed by your own looks and constant search for perfection.
I have a perfect saggy little bottom lol have to say I'm not happy about it if I did have the money I would get alot done not for anyone else but me
I'd get my nose done again and my breast done but like I said I had issues with me and my body Leannexxx If others are not worried about the bodies of people in general, then why are some people so lacking in confidence in their own? I just don't understand it. I have a very dear friend who is extremely obese, bald due to childhood trauma and she was not blessed with beauty. I see beyond all that for she is a beautiful person inside, intelligent and always bright and breezy. I guess she would not say no to a magic wand to make her slim and attractive, but would she lose some of the qualities others love in her?
Lynibis no she wouldn't and for me it's not about anyone else or how someone sees me it's about myself I don't feel good about my body but then again I have never had I suppose it's probably down to a abusive ex who would call me fat all the time my partner now loves every bit of me I just don't see it myself
Leannexxx I think you have answered your own dilemma in your last sentence. I too had an abusive ex husband (my kids tell their kids he is dead) and he went so far as to tell me my lips were too thin among all the other things. As no one else has ever given a hint of any of the problems he had with me I just used my logic and knew they were not true.
Good point - I generally don't support surgical enhancements for things where improving your mindset is an option (which takes time - most people want instant gratification). Important to keep in mind how heavily some people allow themselves to be influenced by societal messages (like, you can only feel better by risking your life having this or that surgery...). In saying this, everyone's idea of perfection is different. There is someone out there for everyone, incl. the self-obsessed etc. 
People who are always obsessed with the way they look drive me potty.I don't like pretty boys either.I like my men to look a little roughed up and with lived in faces.
MelissaLee1 absolutely a bit rough around the edges, like the ones in the link in chat I posted about music likes and genres.
I think that a lot of the people who get these procedures think that it will make them happy and they will feel better about themselves. My tummy isn't as flat as it used to be, I've had a baby and despite my best efforts just can't lose the last few extra pounds. Despite that I am confident in myself and don't care what others think of my body. Could I be thinner? Yes of course I could. Would it change anything about who I am as a person? No it wouldn't.
Fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows are one thing but lip fillers, cheek fillers, bum fillers, breast implants....its all a no no for me, even if I'm not happy with myself l would NEVER go under the knife for cosmetic treatment of any sort even if it was free.
Pinkspirit very sensible. I think it is wrong and dangerous to present a fake image of yourself to the world. Almost like telling your parents they failed.
It’s a strange world we live in. I have never been into make up, never had my nails done or eyebrows but I have saved lots of money and have like you lived a normal happy life. It is sad so many are not happy with what they have been born with and grown into.
I suppose it’s the influx of media, they are constantly shown images of unattainable bodies
No I am petite 5ft 4in, 10st 8lb with varicose veins I have had since I was 20,my ex bf called them " A Map Of Great Britain " when we finished,I got my own back!! 
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