A Sensitive Chat Topic - Verbal Abuse

Leannexxx I’ve no idea if there’s one here

kitty88uk they will be a few go online and see what's in your area

Leannexxx thanks for taking the time to read and reply back to my comments

kitty88uk it's alright no one should have to live like that so if your old enough I'd try and find something for yourself your own safe space

Leannexxx I know someone else on here going through similar situation but may be worse I won’t be sharing what was said although anyone else can see her comment can’t remember which chat topic it was

Hard to do when verbal abuse makes you feel you can’t do anything

kitty88uk Yikes, that's a very toxic environment you and your mom are in, times are tough so it's understandable families live together nowadays, but at some point it becomes unlivable to be under the same roof as that other individual who makes your life so hard and stressful.

Try to make a plan to live somewhere else far away from him and there's help which GPs tend to have info on about. I'll guess you're around 36 based on the '88' number, right? Don't waste your life with people like that.

PhilipMarc there’s more to it but won’t bother saying

kitty88uk Sure, it's not needed, that's more than plenty. Try to find somewhere else to live and that he doesn't find your new address unless you want him to, at some point in life.

PhilipMarc thanks for taking time to reply back and trying to help you don’t know how much it means to me, getting teary lol

kitty88uk I think they might need some help too. That sounds like an awful situation to be in. I would definitely look into getting your own place, even if it is a room in shared accommodation.

kitty88uk I don't know your situation, but remember GPs and Job Centres may be able to help you if needed (not sure if Citizens Advice could be of assistance). Just try to keep calm and unstressed during those times.

Say, you don't have a boyfriend to stay with him temporarily or so?

Look at your possible options, plan to move, and then eventually pack your stuff. Ideally move it out when he's out.

PhilipMarc no bf

MrsCraig yes I think her situation is kind of severe I wonder how she is now.. can’t remember her user name

kitty88uk I remember reading about it. It is awful when people are in that situation, especially when you feel trapped and as if there is nothing that you can do. I hope you get out of this situation and soon.

MrsCraig oh so you saw her comment too, want to see if she is doing well, like we can support each other. Thanks

martinlufc5637 family

martinlufc5637 all the info is above in various comments but I do appreciate it can be time consuming to read all previous comments. At the end of the day we are all masters of our own fate and must take charge.

kitty88uk I made a decision years ago to get away from the drama of my family, I haven't spoken to my father or brother's in over 25 years, sometimes you have to say to yourself them!! They ain't worth

martinlufc5637 yes I saw you comment about it a few times

Are you okay with sharing what happened?

Lynibis yes true yet hard to do

kitty88uk too many things to list, he never took responsibility for the bad things he did, I always sided with my mother and he didn't like that, he wanted me to be like him, that wasn't happening, I got to the stage where I couldn't stand being in the same room , my brothers sided with him, so they went out of my life too, I tended to settle arguments with my fists, we came to blows many times, it was best for me to just walk away and never look back

martinlufc5637 well done for doing so!

I’m on the receiving end being hit by b*tch sister like you said too many to list

Thanks for sharing about your past, I don’t feel alone anymore..

EmmaWright762 I see, thank goodness nothing bad happened with your neighbour, please be careful and stay safe!

Pfs The problem isn't via the phone.

We've all made suggestions/recommendations so she has to make a plan and go about it.

I love listening to this song, it's so uplifting:

Hope for the best, Kitty88.

PhilipMarc thanks being here just to listen to my damn problems! Thanks for sharing this great country music its very lovely

How did you come across this singer?

What did that person say? Seems as though the comment isn’t there anymore, didn’t say anything about phone..

Abusive phone calls deserve a sharp blow on a teaching staff whistle!

kitty88uk I've been listening to Country for a very long time, but I came across that song through the Texan radio station The Ranch 92.3 which plays new and old tunes. I generally use the Simple Radio to play the station on my Android phone/tablet.

www.923theranch.com/

There's a Country radio or two in the U.K., but it's nowhere near as good. Shame that Britain never embraced this music genre.

EmmaWright762 what’s this about phone calls? I didn’t say anything about it

PhilipMarc exactly! I was thinking the same thing! Don’t hear it much on radio, you should get Spotify app they have so many music choices on there for free!

I like all sorts of music genres love country music when I was watching Nashville tv show many years ago

You should watch it, highly recommend it!

kitty88uk sorry kit that was a reply to someone else who commented on this thread

EmmaWright762 I see yeah I didn’t see the comment was it deleted?

kitty88uk No its still there PFS thought you were getting abuse on the phone then PhilipMarc

corrected them and then EmmaWright commented about phones before the correction - its still there if you read all the replies and comments on the thread. Thank you

emmabeckz it’s not there on my end oh well

Thank you for allowing this chat topic

PhilipMarc yes just read again

kitty88uk I made a comment on trying to help

kitty88uk It's nice to see you're more upbeat.

If you ever want to talk, we're here for you.

emmabeckz what's this about please

Pfs sorry not sure what you mean?

emmabeckz was wondering why the screenshot was up

Pfs because the op was asking who commented about a phone as they couldn't see your comment for some reason and thought it had been deleted so I screenshot what you said about a phone and explained it - all above if you read the thread thank you

PhilipMarc thanks for sharing the song! Thank you for your kind words they mean a lot to me!

M1321 thanks for asking I’m okay now

Confused with what you are saying but happy to know that you find this app useful for deal offers on items

kitty88uk you’re welcome and there’s no need for confusing your stay happy like I’m here post deals and relax I also have YouTube and TikTok keeping myself busy no stress have a lovely day

M1321 thanks for your comment of kind words! Makes me happy yes it’s great to find deals on lots of items to post on here to help other members save money! Hope you have a great rest of the week!

M1321 hi this topic is about verbal abuse that the op is going through and it does help to read the thread about what it’s about before commenting. It is nothing about things that have been addressed between yourself and a few other members in the past so I am going to moderate a bit of your comment to reflect this as you know the other people cannot see this and do not have the right to reply so I’m keeping this on topic. I hope you understand thank you