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This afternoon I was relaxing reading a magazine when I started the Agony Aunt pages. I was surprised some of questions people asked these complete strangers seeking guidance. Of course I was also saying to myself what I would reply. Only one I completely disagreed with.

Do you hear yourself giving your own opinions? Would you write asking?

Pjran
a year ago
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eyeballkerry

I do read these in take a break magazine but my real worry is how long it takes to get your answer published. Hopefully the answers help other people as well.

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Pjran

eyeballkerry I’m sure those who ask are pleased that they’ve got an answer but I wonder if they act upon the advice.

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sallylester1

No I have never written into one , but always read them. I think they are contacted before it's published but not 100% sure

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Pjran

sallylester1 I assumed that people kept their ID anonymous to protect themselves.

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sallylester1

Pjran Um never thought of that

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jms19

In some cases i think the situations are made up but it’s still entertaining. I can see the appeal cause you get advice anonymously which is good for sensitive issues.

Me personally though i need to know who my advice is coming from cause if they aren’t similar in mindset to me then I’m not sure the advice would be helpful

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tumblespots

I remember reading them avidly when I was a young girl in case they gave advice about something that also troubled me, but I haven't really given them any thought since.

I do agree with you though, that I probably wouldn't agree with the advice given these days but as Miss Marple said 'just because good advice isn't listened to, doesn't mean you shouldn't give it'.

The question is - is it good advice?

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Pjran

tumblespots I think as we mature we have experience and often know people who have gone through certain situations so can offer advice but no one listens to me so I don’t offer now😇

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jdible

A female friend sent of f a letter she got some good advice back and left her cheating husband and rebuilt her and her kids life

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Pjran

jdible if she asked would you have given her the same advise?

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Lynibis

No but I phoned in to a tv one and complained about my lazy partner who sat around the house all day while I worked and supported us and came home to cook and clean as well. They advised I get shot of him..........so I did!😂

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Pjran

Lynibis sounds like you knew that was what was needed and just wanted someone to confirm it.

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Lynibis

Pjran yes very true lol.

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