Do You Sleep Apart from Your Partner like the Royals Do?
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www.mirror.co.uk/news/royals/charles-camillas-secret-long-marriage-30421845
In the news today, it is said the Royals sleep apart as it helps with their work schedules and health? Do you agree with this?
I do actually. When a friend told me years ago that she no longer slept with her husband I assumed they were breaking up. How wrong was I? He snores!
Yes, the snoring drove me mad! I don't know why people think there is something wrong just because you sleep apart - we both get a whole big bed and no-one to take the covers from you either.
We don’t but then we are definitely not Royal! . We turn in and get up different times though.
This is becoming a lot more common, sharing a bed is not really essential for a good relationship.
Pjran ...We never put light on to get dressed if up early,I only put the landing light on or open a curtain for a few minutes..
Pjran ...Same here sometimes, he values my opinion & I just WhatsApp a photo of me trying outfits on to my daughter or sister as they know what suits me!!
I fall asleep downstairs with our two cats,wake up & go to bed as my partner is going to work most of time.These days I spend more time sleeping upright on our leather settee with feet on footstool & one cat next to me while other is on his blanket on my side of the bed!!!
My husband often sleeps in the spare room as our son comes into our bed and he ends up kicking his dad so it means he gets a better night's sleep.
Unfortunately I snore or grind my teeth so despite starting in the same bed my wife will often go into the spare room
jjs1985 I often go in the spare room when my husband falls asleep as he snores and grinds his teeth and i dont want to disturb him by nudging him. we have a great marriage and love each other very much
I'm sleeping in separate beds. For me I was heartbroken when he said he no longer wanted to sleep with me after 14 years of been together. It meant the end of our relationship. Maybe there's something wrong with me or maybe it depends on how your relationship is outside of the bed. My ex now admits where not a couple which makes sleeping in beds that are in the same room odd. I'm stuck living with my ex because I'm dependent on him financially.
JLouM There isn't much help. Plus I'm dependent on him to go out as I have Agoraphobia and can't go out by myself. But I have recently considering moving out and living on my own. I'm struggling to cope with the current situation. I've talked about us moving together but he doesn't want to move. Plus my ex is saying to the council that where still a couple when were not and he's even said this to me. What this means is that we would get a one bedroom property rather than a two. This would force me to have to sleep in the same room as him. I don't understand why he's doing this. Other than to have control. I'm really confused at the moment.
Each to their own, Everyone has to do what works for them. I have to admit it's not something I'd like to be a regular occurrence.
Yup my little one kicked him out of the bed and he works nights too but honestly I'm glad I don't have to listen to he's snoring
MarkSnook It is when you think about it. I am sure many people would get a much better sleep on their own.
eyeballkerry exactly, let's face it, it's what the bed is made for, sleep! Ok ok, excluding birthdays and Christmas
yes. I love it. I love my fiancé so much but his sweating & snoring drive me insane. He moves alot too. He currently put himself on the sofa but I’ve just put a bed in our spare room. I’m sure i read somewhere that it’s actually NOT normal to sleep in bed together. (We do on holidays though)
sallylester1 I had to leave our bed last night due to husband snoring and sleep on the sofa. We have a spare room but it is filled with drums.
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