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I've just read a news feed about a mother who's in a two bed flat with her two boys and she's moaning saying she's been on the housing register for 10 months and still hasn't got anything she wants a 3 bed house so her children can play in a garden I'm I wrong in thinking she's seems to be very entitled? Firstly she would only get a two bed anyway and there is a massive housing crisis I've been on the housing register for 3 years haven't come close to getting offered one yet am I moaning about it no

Leannexxx
a month ago
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MrsCraig

I've seen stories like too. I personally would just be happy that I had a roof over my head and would make the most of it. A lot of people seem to be entitled these days. There aren't enough houses to go around, unfortunately not everyone is going to get exactly what they want. A family member of mine lived in a one bed flat with their partner and 2 kids all in the one bedroom. Never moaned as they were just grateful to have somewhere to live. They eventually got a 2 bed house. Kids had to share a room, they never once complained. They were just happy they had a home for their family.

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Leannexxx

MrsCraig exactly my thoughts they think going to the papers is gonna make them get something when in fact it just makes people mad

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MrsCraig

Leannexxx 2 of my sons friends used to live near the school, about a 5 minutes walk but they both got moved to a bigger house. It is a 25 minute walk minimum from the school, they walk it every day and neither them or their parents complain. People think I will go to the papers and people will get angry on my behalf but they get angry about the situation. People are on the housing list for years unfortunately, there will be people who have waited a lot longer than her.

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Leannexxx

MrsCraig oh yes I know the waiting list in my area is 18 years it was 10 so I've got a few years to go yet lol

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MrsCraig

Leannexxx that is crazy, 18 years is such a long time! Hope you aren't waiting that long. Even the 3 years you've been waiting is a long time.

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MelissaLee1

I was on the housing list for over 15 years.Then I met and married my husband.I only got single tenancy after he died.We were married for over 14 years and living together for 5 before that.But for him I'd probably still living with mum or sofa surfing.

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Leannexxx

MelissaLee1 don't get me wrong I want to move can't really afford the private rent for a house in my area the only thing I won't move into is a high rise flat not that I think I deserve better just I lived in them most of my childhood because of my dad's job and once there was a fire because a smack head thought it would be funny to light up a sofa and we had to go out the windows since then I can't go in them

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Pjran

I expect if the council found her a 3 bed house she would refuse because it’s not in a desirable area or too far from schools.

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Leannexxx

Pjran no the council haven't offered her anything because there isn't many 3 beds house available and she's not entitled to one she's a single mother with two boys they can share a room till they are 21 I know that because that's what was said to me I've got two girls 10 years apart

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BonzoBanana

In Bristol it is something like 23,000 families on the waiting list when there is only 27,000 council homes all currently occupied. England now has a greater population density than Japan and there is no money for new housing stock and not many places to build them anyway. We will have to follow Japan's example and start creating far smaller homes. One of the things that used to help with housing was the old rates system. It made local taxation was far, far worse for larger properties as you paid a percentage of the properties value this meant it was more expensive to live in larger houses. Nowadays the rich can have large main homes and even second homes all for less comparatively than what they used to pay for single smaller home. It was also super cheap and efficient to collect as the tax was on the home which never moved. The rates meant people would aim for smaller properties and pack more people in to save money. No such incentive with the current system.

So many poor political choices has led to this problem and it's still getting worse due to a high level of immigration. Lack of availability has also caused private rents to soar and create real poverty due to rent taking such a high percentage of people's earnings

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KateGriff169

My son has been on the housing register for probably 8/9 years now, he was offered one place right at the start but he refused it because of how far out it was. He still applies now for a place but never even gets a phonecall or email. I understand there's people with priorities but that's a long time

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jms19

I agree it does seem entitled to expect a bigger propriety due to wanting certain luxuries. The newspapers are very clever in putting these stories out though, it breeds resentment for those on benefits which has been going on for years.

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Leannexxx

jms19 well she would have got paid money for her story

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martinlufc5637

Waiting lists for council housing ect.. are ridiculous, my 22 yr old has been waiting 4 years, council needs to build more housing, quickly

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Leannexxx

martinlufc5637 agree with you and sorry to say it should be for people who are actually born here

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martinlufc5637

Leannexxx don't get me started on this subject, I didn't know until recently that the government pay councils extra money to house them, council housing should be for local people only, with the odd exception, I grew up on a council estate, I wouldn't have wanted it any other way

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Leannexxx

martinlufc5637 oh didn't you know that? Yes the government pays the council and hotels for them to stay in

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PhilipMarc

I don't doubt you I've seen news reports before of ungrateful people who were given a home and still complained, but do you have a link for this one?

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Leannexxx

PhilipMarc www.google.com/amp/s/www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/im-constant-fear-child-feel-30056039.amp had to look for it I find it madness when someone what's something there is always something wrong with their kids

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PhilipMarc

Leannexxx "They don't seem to realise the impact it's having on us as a family. I'm scared that he'll climb the window and fall out, I don't think they realise the risk."

Really, using autism as the excuse? Lock/block the windows and that won't happen.

What an ungrateful and entitled person she is. Just bizarre.

She'd be begging to stay if they'd evict her.

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Leannexxx

PhilipMarc I don't understand how low the windows are and don't they have locks on them anyway? I know all mine do but one as it's classed as fire escape

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LL81

People these days or before think that can produce children and expect the state to pay for them. Not acceptable you produce you provide! Including a roof over their heads!

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Leannexxx

LL81 I disagree on that because circumstances change I was working full time but due to a very bad pregnancy I had to give it all up then the company I worked for closed down I was lucky that my partner was working at that time but god it was hard

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Jerseydrew

They can moan all they want but they have been housed. You can't have it all. I can't get on the waiting list. I need to have more kids to qualify. I've no garden either but we've survived

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Leannexxx

Jerseydrew well it took me a year to get on the housing list after doctors notes had to get InTouch with the MP too because where we are now it's not really safe for me or the kids but like I said I'll be happy even coming close to getting a low rise flat

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